Suzannah Dacre, and A Current Affair (The real story, with facts and evidence available).
I read a troll comment recently, that said:
“She was talking about 6,8 figure contracts, and four degrees, and no 30 year old has that, yeah right - so glad I checked my facts.”
And it prompted me to write this, thinking, are people really that naive and basic to believe what they've heard, without living through their own experience?
My response to that troll - You're incorrect. I’m 29, and hold A LOT more than management, marketing, public relations and journalism degrees - you’d know that if you checked your facts, spoke to my clients - instead of speaking with the keyboard warriors online.
Be prepared for a read, because I will only say this once, because I don't like that social media enables criminals to seem innocent, and that trolls have the louder mouths when trying to cover their tracks. What you get with me, is full blown honestly, no BS, always said in the most kind way possible, but truths will be told, because you need change to grow, and you can't change when constantly justifying your bad behaviour.
Who do you align with more in society?
A. A notorious criminal, drug dealer, who beats their partner, doesn't pay child support (cough, the trolls online that seem so innocent).
or ...
B. A law abiding, squeaky clean, never done drugs or smoked, ever, multi qualified professional, who is well respected among business leaders, community leaders, and called an angel, by strangers - yet is perfectly imperfect, and owns up to their actions always (me).
If you answered A, I'm not your type of person.
Suzannah Dacre and A Current Affair, the real story (AKA what actually happened, not the self sabotaging victims version, who forgot to remove their five star reviews online).
1. Why we looked at the story like a filter for genuine people, and the alternative, sheep, and saw the positive side to it (If you believed it, or any trolls - you are in the sheep category - you can see the evidence below).
Note - I get recommendations from senior officials in the police service, from CEOs of charitable organisations, and from international business people - and they wouldn’t ever support a bad person in society.
2. The trolls say I’m the fraud, when they themselves committed multiple acts of it over a number of years, and received a benefit through deceit multiple times - I'm squeaky clean with the law.
3. The trolls say I’m unqualified, when all the regulatory bodies are happy with my qualifications and experience. We passed every test (and the hundreds of anonymous complaints they made in their hate (obsession) group).
4. The trolls say they’re the victim, when they got thousands of dollars of benefit, and left a company out of pocket, despite leaving five star reviews, and recommending everyone - and committed an act of fraud by getting unpaid products from the wholesaler which they were not entitled to - so much for professional only, InSkin Cosmedics.
5. The trolls say I’m a bad person, when they had to create multiple fake versions of me online to justify their bad behaviour. A fake website, A fake facebook page, A fake media story.
6. Why bullying in kids won’t stop unless the adults change their ways.
7. Oh - and why ruining the life of a well respected, law abiding, popular citizen with a family legacy, will get more views as clickbait, then what real news will - I’m OK to support the revenue of the slowly dying media channels, I’m a giver - but just realise not everything you hear or read, is true.
For those who know me, they know I’m very old fashioned, honest, understanding, and reasonable. I can’t help you if you never want to take accountability for your own actions, and always look to blame others, and I will never support you if you’re on a quest to destroy others, no matter what they’ve done wrong - there is always a better way to handle tough situations.
That same value was said by one of my sickly obsessed trolls who’s face appeared on TV smashing my name, despite failing to tell the world they hacked the Health Ombudsman, and have an extensive history of mental health issues, stalking, and being a troublesome member of society (the reason why everyone they meet thinks I’m dodgy = it doesn’t take rocket science to figure that out = she’s the common denominator - with a history - I’d probably think I’m dodgy too if I hung around her attitude for too long).
I don't think I've ever actually received a genuine negative review across any of our businesses, because we pride ourselves on service excellence - only fake reviews of the negative sort.
I was raised to lead by example, and treat people with respect, and that is what I do, and I endorse that behaviour amongst others, including my daughter. They often say, to make true judgement of an adult, look at their children’s behaviour, and given that my daughter gains whole school awards as a prep child for kindness, and compassion, and continues to be acknowledged for her kindness in grade one, she speaks to the homeless, and uses her pocket money to buy them meals, I think that gives a pretty clear example of what type of family we are.
In fact, she friended a man who was homeless, and had been missing for over 20 years, we found him, identified him, offered our home, went shopping for him, cooked for him, and located his lost family interstate, and reconnected him with them - you can see the pictures below. Bad people don’t do that - normal people don’t even do that - and nor did the police for 20 odd years, despite the man being a regular homeless on the esplanade - we made the effort.
We don’t achieve success by tearing down others - that goes against our values, and having helped many people from troubled backgrounds, including women from domestic violence, children from abusive families, individuals who commit crime, I can say, that this statement is a struggle for me to write, as kindness is my preferred way to live - but after living nearly five years in silence, taking the high road, and watching how people are gullible enough to believe trolls, something has to be said - with absolute respect.
I give chances, despite being told not to - and whilst the majority of people are good, honest people, I wouldn’t be where I am today without them - there are others, the minority, that ruin it for others - and I believe the rules of psychology say the behaviour of an individual is about them, the words that come out of their mouth is about them, not the others who they speak ill about - and yet, adults who run around preaching bullying is bad, choose to side with, and believe the words of trolls, and people who tear others down, and not check their own facts.
Just ask Renee Gipp at Mumlife Community, or Melbourne Mums Group - the most judgemental mother’s groups around, that would rather leave a sickly obsessed youth with a criminal history that is not a mother in the group - who trolled me, than an angel of a mother who provided their members with jobs and homes, and doesn’t break any rules. Shame on you - you are not the right type of leaders to be nurturing mothers, or children if you endorse this behaviour, and can't follow your own rules.
To me, that makes them a bully themselves - and it makes me wonder, if someone told me something bad about you, would you want me to believe them, or remember how you’ve treated me, and come to you?
And there is your answer to how most individuals should think, before they act.
I’ve lived a life of helping people, I am not yet 30, yet have had multiple businesses and senior roles, with very long term, loyal clients (from 2004+) as a business strategist, as a therapist for rehabilitation, as a skin therapist who bridged the gap between skin and body after my mother was diagnosed with Motor Neuron Disease, when I noticed the change in her skin linked to her body, and our family foundations, in the property development and construction industry, but I chose to use our houses to help the homeless (because I can, despite my family saying I’m naive to do it) - and I’ve been criticised for my knowledge, by a select few, who actually aren’t clients.
The people who actually know me say my age and accomplishments intimidate people, when it shouldn't - I'm here to help.
My businesses always gave accounts, for people to pay within a reasonable amount of time - like we do today, and well, again, this same trend of non-paying, toxic individuals is happening, but this time, I’m screenshotting their reviews before they go and change their mind, trying to justify their wrongdoing. Our prices have always been on our website, clear to see - yet apparently people only see what they want to see despite having to read the content to book the appointment.
In 2014/2015, a fake website appeared online, under my name, saying I was God and a doctor etc, but what people didn’t realise, is that it was indeed fake. I am not religious, far from it, and if you check my history through my newsfeeds, but also speak to my good clients who pay their way, I actually disliked the medical profession, for complacency, and how they treated my mother, my partner and many clients. I do not like band aid fixes for anything, skin, body, or business and life, the quick fix will never last. I had doctors and professionals as clients, who appreciated my attention to detail with client care, and challenging the status quo. I'm not Antivax, but I respect informed consent, and knowing the pros and cons to everything.
Thank you to Marie Enna-Cocciolone at Inskin Cosmedics for alerting me to this website - but I’m disappointed in your double standards, hope you enjoyed your actual fines, when my history is still squeaky clean.
The term medically advanced is a common term in the beauty industry, and should not be taken out of context.
A Current Affair states the OHO ordered me to do something, this is incorrect, they apologised for their involvement in a situation. The OHO states they never actually spoke to A Current Affair, and my guess is A Current Affair is much like the sheep in society, gullible enough to believe the wrongdoers who would carry around their own body chalk.
A letter from the Health Ombudsman himself is attached for you to view, their solicitor failed to respond after writing an apology, as I asked him if they would be taking any responsibility for the actions of their rogue staff member (I am a fan of discipline). A senior government official tried to misguide me that the police would be helping us, when I have on record, the Inspector saying we are helping the OHO, they have not requested us to help you. I didn’t get where I am today by being naive and believing the words of senior officials, I knew full well police would not act for my safety based on the words of others.
Letter to Suzannah Dacre 20160818
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I have never been ordered to do anything, by any official body. I am squeaky clean when it comes to the law. And really, funny story - I come from a law abiding family, law, business, global relations, construction - and what those sad examples of individuals didn’t realise, is the firm they used, was the firm of my mother’s junior solicitor - and well, and the law community is very tight knit, and we knew exactly what was happening - and how feral these individuals are, that even when told by their lawyer NOT TO DO A CURRENT AFFAIR, they had no respect for the law or their authorities, and did it. There’s no point pursuing people like this in the court, they don’t respect the law at all.
In 2015, AHPRA contacted me citing the anonymous contact of one of the shows alleged victims - not so anonymous really as the name was stated, citing concerns that my intelligence and knowledge would confuse people as to my qualifications, and I agreed, asking what is the best thing to do, put a statement on our website saying we are not medical professionals, so those simple individuals in society did not make assumptions. This troll, who caused all this noise, never had any concerns, as described in the numerous complaints, they were just concerned people would be confused because of my knowledge. It was then, we knew how far obsessed with me and my life, they really were.
This website and hate group was reported to Queensland Police in 2015/2016, and the head of the station said to me, as it’s not impacting my business, I have a solid reputation with my clients, there is nothing they can do, despite people stalking my family, other families, and encouraging others to make volume false complaints to all authorities. They told me people can be nasty, jealous, and I just have to rise above - and that is exactly what I did.
Successful, good people - do not go around destroying others. Learn from this - and they usually don’t have the time to get involved in drama online, as they’re too busy being successful, and helping others do the same.
Now to trolls, learn something from your actions, you cannot falsify complaints. There is actually a law against false complaints, and when I asked the inspector why they don’t enforce that law to stop troublemakers clogging our legal systems, they said “we don’t want to deter people from making complaints” - yet it seems they don’t want to apply discipline when the law states to do so either. One of those victim faces on the show, responsible for the website, and hacking the Health Ombudsman’s system, also tried to procure false complaints anonymously, and how we found out, is, well, you can’t provide an anonymous complaint to the health ombudsman - the jokes on you.
I’m not perfect, no one is, but I would never do anything with the intent to harm anyone - ever, like these individuals have done for years non stop against my family, and anyone who comes into contact with us, clients, tenants, anyone - hence my silence, until now - and I will still write this with total respect for positive outcome. I have never in my life been in a bully group, never in a hate group, and never degraded people for my own benefit. I lift people up.
They wouldn’t have to create a fake website, fake Facebook page, and social profiles in my name - if indeed I was a bad person, because my behaviour would show it. Instead their behaviour shows what type of human they are. They wouldn’t have to provide anonymous and fake complaints if I was a bad person either.
They met our business in 2014, and 2015, and they held grudges that whole time, to 2016, and to 2020. And yes, those fake profiles are still online.
AND they never actually had treatments at that new premises, or business (but they do know how to hold a grudge well). Only one, who was employed, and terminated, by the new business, was at that premises, in 2016, years after these alleged victims (who still have five star reviews online).
They never told the world what actually happened for me to stop helping them, and this is what happened...
I gave work experience to one individual, who asked if they could live with our family due to family violence at home, to which I replied, with the permission of your guardians, we will happily provide a safe home for you. This individual took thousands of dollars of products and service from our business, our company laptop, and confidential information, and disappeared into thin air. We had an open communication with their mother before this, and continued to reach out to their mother, and them. directly to resolve it - they failed to respond. Fair Work tried to approach us, but as the complaints were clearly not in the best interest of the individual, those complaints did not continue - as I said, I’m more than willing to resolve a problem with respectful and productive communication. Prior to giving this individual a chance, we were warned of their troubled history, and well, we learned the hard way - and the right way, through direct experience. That individual recently reached out to my business, and as I explained to them, we can help them so much more, if they repay their debts in good faith, stop trolling online, and we’ll even recycle their payment through our investment, and give them the profits - that would be thousands of dollars - but they continue to troll instead of choose a ridiculously positive resolution. Their uncle is a volunteer for the SES, and is one of my biggest trolls, with fake profiles, and when I messaged him in 2015 to ask him who he actually was, he said my partner was corrupt and stood down from police because of it.
The problem with this statement, is at the time, my partner was critically injured from annual training with police, and had not been at work, due to surgery, and well a surgery complication ending him up in ICU, and there is no physical way he could be corrupt, given his life was spent in a coma-like state due to medication, in a bath, or in bed. He could not drive, walk, or string a sentence together. He tried to commit suicide numerous times, and his mates at police were ordered not to help or support due to pending legal action against them, when all he wanted, was an apology from the man who crushed his spine, and was responsible for the medical retirement, and then the end to his active physical career. He was offered an administrative role, and did not take it, instead taking medical retirement.
I’m not sure how this troll continues to service the SES with this type of life destroying the lives of others. Another issue with society, the good doers stay silent, whilst the troublemakers are loud.
I don’t believe A Current Affair would have ever happened if I didn’t terminate a staff member due to gross misconduct. This staff member, another troubled youth, has a history of youth crime, and we helped them when no one else would give an opportunity. In addition to providing a role, they contacted us for help when they feared for their safety in their home because someone was beating down the front door - due to the family’s history and actions of course. Now this staff member is the type of person who would tell the world and their mother they resigned, when indeed they were terminated, and continued to steal our company laptop, credit card, and then extort us for money for the safe return - and we found out their version when their father tried to hustle us returning the items, when we told him what their version was, and what the facts were, and he was very disappointed in his own child. The irony in this - is that Cairns has a mass problem with youth crime, and yet the police endorsed this individual as an ambassador for no time for youth crime, when they have a very solid history of youth crime. We found this out in 2019, when they stalked my 6 year old’s community birthday party online - four years after being terminated, and the very judgemental mothers at Melbourne Mums Group, and Mumlife, blocked me based on their trolling behaviour. In those groups, I provided homes and jobs for mothers, and yet they allow a teenager, who is not a mother, in the group, trolling individuals - and remove me, despite me always being kind, positive and supportive. Shame on those mothers who have future generations in society. Our family now has a protection order against this individual, and we urge you, if you have been messaged by a troll directly putting our name down, to reach out to us, so that Victoria Police can enforce disciplinary action. This individual is studying to become a nurse, and as police agreed, would society really want a nurse that steals, stalks, and aims to harm children, four years later, across the other end of a country?
I might also mention, they used family cancer as a defence in their case - yet had no issue hurting a widow who’s partner died from cancer by blurting their story on national media - they are long term clients of mine, and family friends. I’ve seen numerous comments on chronic disease - I’ve worked with people living with disability and illness, I’ve been the trainer to help people who were told by medicine they’d never walk or run again, and with me, they achieved that - and still to this day (10+ years later, are clients). My mother passed from Motor Neuron Disease, and that time, I built quite the caring reputation with other families going through terminal illness, as we altered our properties to help those living with disability, we became supports for those going through tough times - and those clients are still clients today with a number of our businesses.
Now to the next individual, I was warned about their stalking behaviour, or ability to fixate, and their prior mental health issues - by a friend of theirs, and also one of their service providers, but I remained judgement free. They provided an exemplary review on their personal page recommending others, and had no issue putting in writing they’d pay their bill, but never did. The individual claims I made fun of their mental health, when I never did - and never will, but have to ask, how can one endorse the behaviour that causes a mental breakdown, and encourage others to have the struggle as what they did? This person was responsible for using the staff of the health ombudsman to cause this entire story, and attempted to provide anonymous complaints to every regulatory body, but failed. I’ve never met, nor spoken to their partner, yet they speak like they know me, when they left a voicemail, to which I never replied, as I like dealing directly with a person, and expect them to come to me if they have an issue, to resolve it, otherwise it’s not my problem to resolve. This one never did. The last email I recall seeing was "I'll pay on Friday once our clients pay us - the joys of small business".
Fact:
Numerous complaints at same time, by the same group of people were made to every regulatory body, including, but not limited to, radiation safety, a genetics counsel, The Office of The Health Ombudsman, ACCC - and yet, we passed all their queries - because we don’t have anything to hide, and have facts and evidence to back ourselves.
Now to another individual - who’s family’s five star reviews are still online, saying “thank you so much for helping, you are incredible” - thank you - you practically built my business via referrals from your experience and results - and your family provided numerous words of love for months - and I was caring enough to forego my awards ceremony to come and look for you when you disappeared and failed to respond, citing you missed your family - and yet, when you failed to pay your bill, you tried to play the victim. I was warned about this individual as well, from their previous employers, but I still chose to help without judgement, and got left with a big loss due to non payment of their family’s accounts, the equivalent could have bought a new car, or provided a salary to someone. There was no issue with their treatments, and if you need to see evidence of this, I’m happy to share their reviews. They would never have referred the volume of people you did to our service if you did not love our service. You can see the mother, and brother's comments below.
To another individual, don’t worry, I kept your secret. That’s my integrity talking, I know you could lose your professional license if I were to talk, I’m within my full right to based on what you’ve done to me, but I am an integrity driven person - you can sleep well knowing that your secret is safe with me. And that time you told me you’re sick of helping people that don’t pay their bills, and I told you take them to court - funny how you did exactly the same to us, yet we never once failed to pay your bills.
And the other individual, I kept your secret too - I want you to have a happy family, for your kids to grow up bully free, and be a force for positive change, but please check the rules of being religious, as I don’t know a religion that condones your behaviour. Your last message to me was ‘thank you - you are amazing’ - and I know you had no cause of concern with our service, you were just in victim mode, and fell into the wrong circle of people who thrive off destroying others - but thank you for your referrals!
Some facts:
The definition of fraud is to obtain property through deceit. I was never investigated for fraud, as the police know I’m a very open, sometimes too honest person.
BUT
The question must be asked, how did these individuals get the products they purchased from us, yet we withheld them until they paid? That could very much be seen as an act of Fraud - because InSkin Cosmedics claims to be professional only.
Oh - and the saddest thing (not really) - when their community whinged about how the industry struggled so much - the jokes on you, I sold out of the DNA Tests and products after the show with ongoing clients, who still request my service four years later - maybe, instead of looking for someone to blame, look at your own actions.
Why I had to write this blog.
1. Because people are judging me based on the words of fake, toxic people doing so much wrong in society today.
2. Because people say bullying is bad, yet are bullies themselves.
3. Because my daughter's birthday party was ruined by a person with a sick obsession with my family - and society took her side. Yes, my daughters 6th birthday was stalked by one of those individuals.
4. And because, depression and suicide is a BAD THING - and behaviour like the people of the above, needs to STOP.
5. Oh, and that hate group is created by a founder of a not-for-profit helping people with disability, who lost in court, and has a court order to pay us money - which they haven't. Are they really a suitable founder of a not-for-profit? FYI their five star reviews are still online.
Don’t judge me unless you speak to me, or honest people who have experienced our service properly. A client to me, like most businesses, is an individual who pays their bills, and uses your service, or discusses their problems honestly to resolve them - they didn’t do this, so they aren’t entitled to the term client.
Those victims on the story were barred from our service due to non payment, and went out of their way to justify their bad behaviour to themselves over the course of 2+ years - we’ve done this recently with two clients pre covid, and watched how quickly their stories change when they lose control, luckily enough our systems record everything - so if they say a bad word about us, we can publish their actual words.
Before you judge me, or a business based on a small amount of bad (probably fake) reviews, look at the many positive reviews, speak to the clients who pay their way - to get a real perspective.
If you have any questions or concerns, please feel free to contact me, or any of my clients who have been with me for all those years (and paid their way), they are happy to chat - even one that I’ve known since 2003, and another since 2006, who know all those self made victims personally, and are very much disappointed in their behaviour.
My solicitor, who has known the three generations of my family (I'm from a law, builder, business family) said he’d eat his hat if I was on A Current Affair - what we didn’t realise is that these humans would go to the extent of creating a fake me online over the course of a two to three year grudge to make the story happen.
And by believing the words of those toxic individuals, just realise, you’re then actively discrediting the law abiding, well respected members of society - your choice really.
There’s nothing stopping me creating the fake website and profiles of these individuals, and actually using fact to completely discredit and shame their character - except my integrity, and with this, my wish from this experience is that parents lead by example, and every individual takes kindness as always the first response - because without that - society won’t improve.
And to the toxic red head online still obsessed with me - Your husband tried to claim payment for another trades work - we told him to his face, this was a no go, the work is shared fairly, he agreed, and that was resolved - you really are a sad member of society to be shaming me online 5-6 years later - when hubby should man up, and contact us with his gripe, or get you in control.
We only have positive reviews from real clients who pay their way, and are grateful for the flexibility we offer across our businesses. I'm 29, nearly 30, and well, do deal with 6,7,8 figure opportunities, that's the world of big business, whilst also having a high performing investment that delivered 1200 units in six months, and continues to overdeliver against our 1000u annual quota.
Only good, paying clients are welcome to the investment membership, you have to right your wrongs with me, to get access.
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There is quite the list of five star reviews we have archived, of beauty clients who have stayed with us since 2011 to today across a number of our businesses - to see them, you just have to ask. Communication is key to resolve any problem.